Few readers have an appetite for winter when spring is currently doing all the things that spring does in all of the ways spring does them. But for those who have already grown weary of scrolling 4.6 million posts on the #springgarden, I have a few thoughts about the #wintergarden, or at least the thoughts that occurred to me as I challenged myself to 85 days of documenting it on Instagram from January through March.
Next winter will come around faster than we expect, and choices we make (or don’t make) now during the planting season, have a huge effect on whether a four-season garden is in our future.
Or indeed, the products of a four-season garden.
It’s about patience
This is the first year that I felt there was some ‘body’ to my winter garden. It surprised me that all that planting and planning was beginning to coalesce into something that, viewed from a certain angle, at a certain time of day, with a reasonable amount of alcohol in one’s bloodstream, might be considered a winter garden. In six years.
It’s about managing expectations
The winter garden builds upon itself the same way that the rest of our seasons do – it’s better and bigger with another go around the sun. But where we give our growing season gardens a huge amount of leeway to disappoint and frustrate us, we are less forgiving with our winter gardens.
Most likely due to the fact that we’re cold and irritated. And our winter garden doesn’t instantly look like Longwood…or Kew.
And it’s not as if books, magazines, or social media platforms are all clambering to show us a winter garden that is in its infancy to help us measure the quality and pace of our own garden-building. The minutiae of garden making is not a particularly inspirational process in the summer, much less the winter. We’re simply not going to find that kind of honesty.
It’s about finding good information
Instead, most authors/influencers/publishers are desperately trying to tempt us into something we didn’t feel we needed to do with the finest examples of where we might end up if we tried. If you’re going to sell an editor on a story about the niche market of winter gardens, you’d better do it with gobsmacking images. There’s no click-bait in tiny shrubs peppering a grey wasteland, or a white, snowy one.
Yes there is merit in aspirational images. But as so much of a winter garden is about structure (even more so than a summer garden), so much of a winter garden is about time. And taking time is sooooo 20th century.
Faced with ideal vs. reality, it’s way too easy to feel discouraged. So we plant a few snowdrops and a bag of Tête-à-têtes near the front door, it looks scant and tundra-ish, and we give up.
It’s like showing someone Gisele Bundchen in Downward Dog to get them to start a yoga practice for increased flexibility and tone, when what they REALLY need to see is their yoga-loving next door neighbor looking better in a dress than she did last year.
The winter garden builds upon itself
Better to banish the little demon of self-doubt telling you ‘why bother,’ put Gisele the hell out of your head, and continue to add shrubs, bulbs, perennials and hardscaping this spring with an eye toward whatever your particular shade of winter brings.
In a few years you’ll have a moment down the line where you say, “Wait. I think I see it coming together.” Or at least, “I see where this is going now.” That was my moment this year, and it is incredibly motivating to continue the process.
Pieces of a Whole, Not Single Elements Carrying The Show
It’s not just about the early Tête-à-têtes. It’s about many cultivars of early daffodils and cold hardy perennials supported by the February foliage and flowers of healthy hellebores – hellebores that had just finished decorating the January ankles of witchhazel, cornus, and maybe even some pedestrian box.
It’s not just about the snowdrops. It’s about the snowdrops peppering a bed of Iris reticulata, or adding an elegant touch to a brick wall or a well-placed group of stones. Or creating a river of gray green in a woodland with wide, strong foliage and promiscuous tendencies.
It’s not just about lollipop spruce and gumball box. It’s about broad leaf evergreens and variegated evergreens and weeping evergreens giving foil to a rich mix of stems, berries, seed heads, bark, and tawnied grasses.
It’s about lichens and mosses in a warm up, and ice sculptures on the coldest day of the year.
Sometimes it’s about cleaning up. Sometimes it’s about leaving the structure.
It’s about building a winter garden, not instantly having one. We just need to give our winter gardens a chance to grow. – MW
“Light tidy”? Meant “hot toddy”?
Linus! 🙂
I can pretty much do with either any day of the week 😉 – MW
Your winter gardens are looking really nice. My yard doesn’t look too bad in winter. Now if only we could do something about the lack of DAYLIGHT! Then I might not feel so blue.
Seasonal Affective Disorder is a tough one. Vitamin D supplementation goes a little way towards a healthier body ’round these parts. – MW
And actually, grow lights set to face one for 10 minutes in the morning. As long as the bulbs are full spectrum light they help simulate daylight. My daughter suffered from this and those lights made a difference.
On “thinking about a winter garden now”…after 2 storms, one weekend after the other dumped 8 inches each time, I can’t HELP but think of the winter garden. Sigh.
Thank you so much for your 85 days of winter gardening. I found it both inspirational and do-able, even in zone 5 Maine. I look forward to planting for the winter and early spring this gardening year and setting myself up for other activities in the off season besides reading gardening books and making wish lists. Right now my garden is (again) under a thick blanket of snow with more falling. But I am still convinced!
That’s fantastic to hear Astrid. Keep with it, it’s so incredibly rewarding to see those little sparkles in winter. – MW
You are spot on about everything, Marianne—especially Giselle and yoga!
Beautiful legs that never end….. – MW
Oh, we all feel our gardens will look better “next year”. Being dissatisfied with, (and slightly ashamed of), our current plot is the sad lot assigned to gardeners. But the extra ephemerals we put in last Fall give us hope. And anticipation.
In the meantime . . . how dare you show us that Snowdrop WITHOUT TELLING US WHAT IT IS AND WHERE TO GET THEM!!!
That is one I was given — and promptly lost the name, but thankfully there are smart people out on IG that helped me identify it. G. nivalis ‘Viridapice’ — absolutely love it. I think Carolyn’s Shade Gardens has it. – MW
Thankew for the Galanthus name.
Excellent rant: full of good pictures to illustrate! Thank You!
Marianne, I enjoy your perspective, your photos, and the articulate way in which you tell us what you are thinking. This is inspirational to me. I’m getting better about appreciating the Gardens in Winter way of thinking, but must confess that I, along with my gardens, come to life in the Spring.
Thank you! And no worries – it’s not for everyone, but if gardening with a view to what the landscape will look like in winter helps us in our winter trudge from car to front door, that’s also a win! Have a terrific growing season ahead. – MW